FAQs

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Can/will we do really edgy, risky stuff?

Well, that depends. RACK (risk-aware consensual kink) is the basis of my practice, and as such we will require thorough negotiation prior to playing for any high-risk activities. By NO means do we NEED to do risky stuff. I will have just as much fun doing soft sensation play as I will doing intense impact or roleplay.

 

What about safe words?

I generally don't require the use of safewords but they are always available. I rely on your breathing rate, vocalizations (or lack of), and body postures on top of verbal or other communications while playing to tell me how to best guide you through scenes. I am happy to use whichever words feel good for you, but my default is yellow for 'please slow down/switch it up a bit' and red for 'whoa, stop now/check in immediately'. 

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What about aftercare?

Of course! This is a given and the end of every session will be devoted to coming back to neutral and checking in mentally and physically (and maybe spiritually even!). Aftercare will look different for each individual and for different types of play. You may want to be wrapped in a fuzzy blanket and cuddled after, or you may want to sit and catch your breath with a glass of water while I sit next to you. 

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When can I see you?

I usually require a minimum 24-48hr notice to make bookings, but it is often longer than that. Good things are never rushed! 

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Can/will we have intercourse/sex?

No, I generally don't offer full service. Please don't ask or expect that we will eventually "get that close" or that you will "earn it".  I can recommend other full-service workers or can arrange to have one join us if you want. 

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Will you be a submissive for me?

Nope. Not unless it's part of a negotiated scene for Goddess Training (female-identifying folks only). 

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What form of payment do you take? 

Cash is ideal.

 

I'd love to see you, but I'm scared I'm not kinky enough. Can we still book a session?

Yes! I can easily create a play session where pain is not the focus. For example, we can engage in fun, light-hearted sensation play with tickles, caresses, feathers, soft cuffs, tandem breathing, etc.

 

Are you beginner-friendly?

Completely. In fact, my sensual style might be just what you need to help you open doors for yourself. 

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What should I expect for how our time will be organized?

For in-calls I will answer the door when you arrive and bring you to our room, we will have a brief check-in to make sure we're on the same page, I will collect your payment and pop out to pay the house as well as grab any last minute things I may want, then I will come back and we'll have a grand time together. The last bit of time will be spent winding down with aftercare and a check in, and then I'll bring you to the door and send you off with a hug and a smile on your face to go about your day. 

 

For out-calls I will arrive dressed nicely but discreetly with a bag of goodies, I will check in via text or call with my security team and then we'll dive into whatever wonderful fun we have planned. Once we've had some wind-down/aftercare time I will check in with my security again and leave just as discreetly as I came in.

 

If we are doing an overnight or multi-hour session I will have regular scheduled check-ins with my security regardless of location. We will also have a an ebb and flow where I will remain as your Domme, but we will also have periods of more relaxed interactions. 

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For public play, this will vary depending on the form of play and just how public it is but generally I will expect you to defer to me either subtly or very obviously in all things while we are together unless we've negotiated otherwise. 

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Do I need to provide any toys?

As I've mentioned, I operate out of a minimalist setting currently. This means I do not currently have the capacity to store lots of equipment or outfits for clients but I do have my basic kit with some glass and metal insertables, lube, lotion, restraints, various torture implements, sensory stimulation/deprivation tools, etc. If you have a specific outfit or tool you would like to have used in our sessions I happily welcome it! Just let me know prior to so I can factor it in to your scene creation. Most sessions just require you and an open mind though. 

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What if I just want to network (eg. I'm also a Dom/Domme/Domina/etc)? 

By all means send me an email! I love to get to know other people in my community that I can collaborate with. 

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Most of the Juicy Things I'm Open to...

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Adult Baby

Anal Training

Ass Play

Bastinado

Bimbofication 

Body Worship

Bondage

Ballbusting

Blackmail and Coercion

Boot & High Heel Worship

Breath Play

Caning

Chastity & Keyholding - will require in-depth negotiation

Choking

Cock and Ball and Dick Torture (CBT/CBDT)

Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)

Couples

Cuckolding

Cuddling

Deep Impact Play

Domestic Servitude

Edging

Electrical Play

Enemas

Exercise Domination

Exhibitionism

Feminization

Figging

Financial Domination - will require you to show me a recent bank statement and in-depth negotiation

Fisting

Flogging

Food Play/Sploshing

Foot Worship

Forced Bisexual Experience

Goddess Worship - can go as ritualistic and spiritual as you are prepared for ;) 

Golden Showers

Human Furniture

Humiliation

Impact Play

Knife Play

Latex 

Massage - nuru, therapeutic, relaxation, erotic

Medical Play

Mummification

Needle Play

Nipple Torture

Obedience Training

Objectification

Orgasm Control

Pegging

Pet Play

Pony Play

Puppy Play

Predicaments

Prostate Play 

Protocol Training - Low to High

Restraints

Rope Play

Role Play

Rough Body Play

Scat - Includes an additional fee

Sensation Play

Sensory Deprivation

Sensual Domination

Service Training - private service or event service

Shaving, Epilation, Body Waxing

Sounding 

Spanking

Strap-on Play

Tease & Denial - *My favourite!*

Tickling

Trampling

Voyeurism

Wax play - *also a favourite!*

Water torture (simulated)

Wet and Messy (WAM)

Wrestling

And more that I just haven't thought of yet...

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Hard Boundaries

Pedophilia or incest simulation, the involvement of living animals, dangerously harming acts like forced intoxication.

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